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A Tribute to Michael S. Verigin (deceased August 07, 2016)

11 Thursday Aug 2016

Posted by everigin in Family

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I am one of the fourteen cousins to Michael that some have named the infamous “Fabulous Fourteen”. Mike was the oldest male cousin while, I, Elmer, was the youngest. Perhaps, that is how Mike and I became bonded in a sense.

I recall his mother calling him fondly as “Meenya” and as a child that was the name I used. In chatting with my brother Lawrence, he says that cousins Sam, Peter and Russel were all the same age and had a problem pronouncing his name in Russian and what came out was “Miska.”

I knew Mike as someone that always had something humorous to say when we were young. He seemed to have time to talk to me and that relationship continued through our life-time.

I remember having to travel with Mom and Dad and Mary on a buckboard all the way from Pelly to attend Mike and Verna’s wedding.

Unfortunately, we did not live close to each other and in later years we became even further separated but when we did come to visit, Mike and Verna were always a must see. They, in turn, were generous in their hospitality. When I introduced my wife Marilyn to them, it was the genuine visit which included playing “Doorakee” in cards with the usual complaint that the men were cheating which you all know never happened.

I recall that when they still lived on the farm, we visited them at Christmas time. As we were ready to depart, Mike warned me about this slippery part on the hill located about 600 yards from their yard. He cautioned that cousin Peter Verigin had visited him the evening before. Several minutes later Peter was back and claimed that an icy patch had caused his truck to spin around and come back. This apparently necessitated another drink.

And so, this routine was repeated by Peter several times until finally he was left that evening. So Mike warned me that he was not sure whether Peter was using this as an excuse for another drink or perhaps it was true. We laughed and agreed that Peter was exaggerating and being funny.

Well lo and behold, just as Marilyn and I were still laughing, our 1955 Ford, just spun around and there we were driving back into the yard. Yes, Mike and Verna were standing there in uncontrollable mirth. Of course, we had to have another drink, wouldn’t you?

Over the years, we visited them in all the places that they lived until finally, Kamsack. In later years, we could always find Mike at his favorite Coffee place in the morning and afternoon.

Life was not easy for my cousin as he became the man of the house as a teenager when his father was away. Lawrence, again, recalls how Mike had to represent the family with a rack and horses to be one of the contributors in hauling sheaves to the threshing machine at harvest. Brothers Russel and Lawrence made up one rig and Mike alone handled his. Lawrence recalls how the high wagon used was unstable and Mike had his loaded unit tip over to Mike’s embarrassment but could be well understood considering his age.

He matured quickly and had to find work away from home in order to have spending money.”

I watched him after he took to farming his own farm after marriage and he was frugal with money. He seemed to have all kinds of animals on the farm, trying to make the most of what he had. He was definitely a good farmer.

After retirement, he made a trip to visit all his relatives in British Columbia. We enjoyed his visit well.

Verna and Mike were proud of their son and especially of the grandchildren. We were fortunate to see mike at Eaglestone July 19, 2016. He again told us what all his grandchildren and Great Grandchildren were doing. He was concerned about Marilyn’s cough and offered one of his special cough candies to relieve her cough which is an indication of his love for. people.

We did not realize that this was our last time together.

Rest in Peace Michael and you are now with Verna and many others that are there to greet you!

Our condolences to the family and all of you at this funeral.

Submitted by Elmer Verigin, August 10, 2016

Phillip Konkin Makes a Difference, Whenever He Becomes Involved (Deceased July 30, 2016)

06 Saturday Aug 2016

Posted by everigin in Friends, Uncategorized

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When Phil was challenged with the most recent challenges to his health, he asked if would write about him. Of course it was an honour and I agreed. He read the following story before he passed on and approved same for presentation today…………………….

This huge RV pulls into the newly created site at Whatshan Lake Retreat and my immediate thought was, here is a big shot, lost in the hinterland! I will need patience to handle this one!

A smiling and friendly man reached out his hand out and opened with “Lawrence Popoff told me that this is a place where someone can volunteer and do something for society in general,” as he respond

ed to my question, “what we could do for him.”

“Well, what do you want me to do?” There was a hint of stutter and a definite undercurrent of genuine sincerity.

“I am actually a Small Motor Mechanic by Trade but I spent my last years as an Assistant School Maintenance Superintendent’, he informed me and added this last comment, “tell me what needs to be done and I will get right at it.” That was the understatement as it was amazing what he could do.

And so it started in 1997 with Molly and Phil becoming part of a group of individuals that just gave of themselves because they believed in the spirit of giving. No one really understood why we all did what we did but the idea of an assembly building, at Whatshan, gave us purpose and a physical identity to create something with our hands and with collective ingenuity.

Mario DiBella of Martech supplied many electrical materials and provided equipment which we needed. On one such occasion, I came for a promised gas generator in advance of a work event which was to be a ten (10) day duration at Whatshan. Mario apologized that the only generator in his yard was a real “beat-up” unit that he could not confirm that it was even operable. I was happy to have the opportunity for its use and I boasted with this statement. “if my group of volunteers cannot keep this thing going, then we need to rethink building a Retreat!”

I accepted his assistance to load the unit on the back of “Silver” as my trusty Ford Ranger was nicknamed.

As destiny would unfold, just as we needed to fabricate the main roof trusses, the generator stopped without warning. The volunteers gathered to offer their expertise to get this essential piece of equipment on line. Phil got his wrenches out and the parts were removed one at a time and laid out on a plank in the order they came off so that assembly in the end would be logical. We were obviously impressed with professionalism in this former Small Engines repair Technician as he plied his trade.

Some of the various levers and assemblies had been badly abused and Larry Sapriken the Steel Stud experienced Carpenter started fabricating new pieces as a precaution, that maybe the machine just needed TLC.

A few hours later when the Generator had been totally disassembled, impulsively, Phil jumped up and started a yodel that would have frightened even the most discerning Red-Neck and absolutely took us off guard. When finally he quit kicking the nearest bucket, he uttered “the low oil probe.” We all looked at him not understanding what this was all about.

“Low oil probe automatically shuts off the machine when the oil is below the probe!” Phil was almost at his breaking point at this time. “So why did I not check it before we started this useless exercise?” he continued to moan.

Well assembly was quick and with purpose. The oil was added and the generator worked better than any new unit for the ten (10) days at Whatshan. When I dropped the shining generator off at Martech, Mario asked me what he owed us for the overhaul of the unit.

There was no question that Phil fitted in with all those that would be there to help and soon he became the spirit in the gang as he never resorted to negative talk but always seemed part of a solution rather than a continuing problem. He had no difficulty in finding something to do and always completed what he started.

Later we were able to develop a Volunteer RV section for volunteers. Phil and Molly took to the task of making their site the best of all by planting and mowing their own lawns. Site 17 was strategically situate so that somehow everyone had to walk past it and got waved in as if it was an Oasis. Friendly banter and refreshment was delivered with love and compassion along with hospitality that became known as the “Konkin Way”.

Phil’s vehicle seemed to attract Whatshan Wildlife and on one occasion. two pack rats wanted to leave Whatshan and got a free ride all the way to Thrums with Phil and Molly. It must be the way Phil drives because just when they got home, the “Packies” lowered themselves from the engine housing and staggered away much to the surprise of the Konkins.

On another occasion, Phil was packing his SUV and noticed a bear cub crawling in the other side. So he went to shoo him away only to find that another cub had accessed the open door on the other side. Obviously the wild life had heard of Phil’s cheap transport fees and wanted to leave Whatshan for the urban community. It was difficult to keep a straight face as Phil followed by Molly tried to convince the cubs that there was just no room left in the SUV for passengers.

So the rumor spread amongst the indigenous residents and just when the Konkins would leave their RV, the mice moved in. After many discussions with God, Phil finally found the last access point in his RV floor and the mice reluctantly stopped visiting.

There was nothing that Phil could not repair and bring into operation no matter what problem confronted us at Whatshan. As it was with the majority of the Volunteers, everyone had an expertise that was necessary to enable us to make Whatshan a destination Retreat as more and more people and organizations came to investigate what we were building. Phil would always be ready to show visitors around on his trusty Golf-cart.

No matter when we would meet, within minutes, the question would be “when are going to Whatshan?”

In his sombre moments, Phil recollected as to how his first desire was to be an air-line pilot and started preparations for same. His Doukhobor parents associated planes with War and immediately objected to any continuation of this pursuit. No matter how many times we discussed his success with Mechanics and even operating his own service station in Thrums followed by bus driving and then his final career as an Assistant Maintenence Superintendent, he would always pause with that far away look and mention flying.

So finally, Phil is able to get his wish!

Phil made friends wherever he would be and those friends would always visit with him. Today I am honored to be known as one of his friends. Don’t forget to continue to visit with us.

The process involved interviews with Phillip Konkin over a period of time.

  • June 02, 2016, I started this without interview
  • June 09, 2016, progressed to this dated version
  • August 05, 2016 read at his funeral by Elmer Verigin

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